i think i'm falling out of love for my husband... can u help?

Philippines
January 31, 2007 6:45am CST
i don't know but its what i'm feeling now. i was the only one who has an income. he stays home took care of the household. but at night it always ended his day with a couple of drinking and sometimes taking drugs...
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7 responses
@superbren (856)
31 Jan 07
i think its very sad and very common for this to happen. he maybe feels like a loser as he has no job and has got into a rut . if he cannot get work encourage him to volunteer his help at local places . it will give him a reason to get up , also he could take up a sport which doesnt cost much.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 07
do you think he feels like a loser that's why he's doing it? well. i've been encouraging him to find at least anykind but he doesn't bother. i don't want to be a martyr but i hope i can still be patient. thank you for responsing.
@XxAngelxX (2831)
• Canada
31 Jan 07
:( I am so sorry to hear of your situation. You need to sit down and have a serious conversation about what is going on in your relationship. Tell him of your feelings and maybe things will start looking up for you. Good luck.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 07
we'll try to talk about it. thank you for responsing.
• India
6 Feb 07
first off u should not listen others saying bad about ur husband. and second thing is reduce the communication gap with ur hubby by discussing every thing.
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
are saying if its a gossip? well its not. its the fact, i wanted to get over it. i'm so confused really. whenever we try to talk about it he ignores! you can't blame me. thanks for the response.
@soneya21 (63)
5 Feb 07
you must be feeling like your fed up and there is nothing he is doing to provide for anything especially in the earning department... you both need to sit down and talk as he wont know what your feeling and he might be feeling things that you dont know about and you ight just sort out your differences by just talking or you could even cosider going to counselling. but dont give up just like that as you obviously love him thats why you are asking this question... good luck i hope it works out for you
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
thanks for the advice. maybe we really need to talk. maybe i'm just being sensitive but i know i'm not. yes goodluck to me. thank you again.
@loveworld (104)
• China
5 Feb 07
you must care hem well.
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
yeah i know... but this is what i'm feeling now. thanks for the response.
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
you feel that way because you feel neglected having all the burden upon your shoulder and we still are in this society that men should bring the bacon home or at least bring home more than we do. you are falling ou of love because you see all the wrong sides of him. tell him how you feel and ask how you can help him other than supporting the family. after all he is still your husband. love him with half of your might. :)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
thanks for the response. i needed that advice. we'll try to talk it over!
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
That's really a big problem. Why don't you have a serious talk with him. Tell him to find a job so that he could help with your everyday expenses. Tell him that it's hard for you to be the only one working, that your salary is not sufficient. I'm sure he will understand. Goodluck to you girl. God bless.
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
yes it is. i'm trying to have a talk but he starts to nag! i hope its not too late now. he knows my salary is insufficient but he keeps on doing it. thank you for your advice.