If relationship go Bad its better to break them...

@Rashu169 (4391)
India
January 31, 2007 8:14am CST
No, i think any relationship can be worked upon if and if only both the partners are ready to give it a chance... why if the partner cheats then yeah it should be broken but no other reason should be the reason for a break
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8 responses
• India
1 Feb 07
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Feb 07
yeah true...trust is really important too
@shalwani (760)
• Pakistan
31 Jan 07
We should give atleast one chance to a dying relationship. But if there is no hope of betterment, then it is better to quit.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
ofcourse...but give ur best last shot
• India
31 Jan 07
give it as many chances as possible... dont give up.. that is the best option for every one.. just settle things as soon as the heat between them goes down
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
right...running away from problem is wrong and not at all right
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
you know when to let go or not and you will know when is enough is enough. if you feel the relationship can still be fix up then work on it but if it is not then you have to let go and if it is about cheating of course no doubts you have to broke up with it and let go. Theres no way continuing a relationship with someone who cant be trusted and not deserved to be love and fight for.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
right... trust and love and loyalty are core of a relationship
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
if relationships go bad, then its better to fix it and learn from it. i think that breaking up with a relationship just because some things just don't work out is simply running away with it. but of course, it's a case to case basis and really depends on the problems that the relationship is going through. if it's really for the other party is not tolerable, and not really healing even if there are too much talking and reaching out, then it think that it's the time to break up because there's no growth already and there's no love in the relationship.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
right running away from the problem will keep you huanting
31 Jan 07
I broke up with my partner. He was bad with money and it caused so many problems and he wasn't willing to try and solve them. I was unhappy and it was making the kids unhappy so we have split and now we have a better relationship than ever as friends.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
well there would have been some ways...even my love was a big time spendthrift...i reasoned him out and now he spend only the amount that i sppecify for him to that month
@cruzades (659)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Enough is enough, these are the words comes into my mind after reading your thread. There's an end for everything, if after giving all the chances that both of you spared to each other and still situation got worst, I guess breaking up the last resort.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
well any sort of abuse is in relationship then it itself is not a relationship...
@sham_mdk (436)
• India
31 Jan 07
first of all try to make a good relationship if some thing happens try to correct instead of breaking it,if it is something serious then it ok or else continue otherwise continue with ur life.............
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
31 Jan 07
right...thats the best way to deal...first shot of fight and thats why breaking would be wrong