guys, be honest:

I will not lie, I will say "Yes, my dear, you got fat in you. BGut you know what, today you just look slimmer. Did you do anything ?" See, I'm telling the truth, but as I say the second sentence, she forget what I just say. This way is taught in Neuro Linguistic Programming. It's like we input a command to our computer, and then we input the second command. Both commands are entered but the second command is stronger.

I've been asked this and I approached it in several ways. First, I treated it as a joke, to make the person who asked the question feel a little bit more open and at ease. After that I will answer the question seriously. If she really is a little on the chubby side, I tell her gently and with carefully chosen words so as not to offend her. If she's not, it's easier to tell her straight, and I don't get into trouble. :)

Of course i will say"no,you are slim." When a girl ask me like this,i think she will not want to get the fact.Why do not i tell a true lie?

If it's my girlfriend to ask it i answer: "no, you're not" but in my head i start wondering why my loved girlfriend wants to fight with me at all costs!! If it's another girl i don't matter at all and i ironically answer: "no you're not. You're mega-obese"!!

Thats actually a very tricky queation. You never know what she intends with that question. ay be she is genuinely concerned of her figure or may be she is testing a guyon how honest csn he be. So either way a guy loses at whatever answer he gives to questions like these :-)