Bored or still in love?
January 31, 2007 8:44am CST
I'm with a guy for almost 2 years. I can say that we are faithful to each other but in some way our relationship is not growing. We're just doing the same stuffs and activities. I mean there is nothing new with our relationship. Sometimes i think i'm bored with this situation. We are doing the same things everyday. I can say that the first few months are exciting and challenging but as the days goes by i have noticed that there is no progress at all. Is love still there or were just hanging because of the time and memories spent?
• United Arab Emirates
3 Feb 07
I used to feel like you. Get marry and then you may have some thing different .. Have a child , raise him / her as you improve your self .. Then you can see many different things good and bad but there is at least some action and you will be away from boring .. This is my experience whic my differ than others .. good luck
3 Feb 07
i don't think marrying him is the answer..i mean that's a big deal.. i know that if i will do that i will make my life change..i'm still young and i still want to enjoy life...but anyway thanks for the comment and sharing your story..god bless
1 Feb 07
I feel sometimes as you think, but we need to find new ways to keep it going.. go out weekly once to the place which you both love.. keep your love growing.. if you find that its not growing, then find a way to grow it.. share your love so often, keep saying that you are in love.. be social with others, so that you will not feel the boring in your life..
1 Feb 07
i really appreciate your suggestions..you know what? i can't remember the last time i said "i love you" to my guy.. i just don't like or feel to say it.. there's a time when i asked him i he's not tired of saying that word to me even though i'm saying or doing the same thing to him..and he just said no.. he always like to tell me how much he love me..=(
1 Feb 07
i tjhink youre not inlove anymore...maybe you tell him the real truth and i think he is bored also...maybe you need space or something..yea youre right its about memories.but in the end you both are suffering from that pain called bored..well i think you better think about it.
1 Feb 07
hi there thanks! i've already told him that several times, we've argued and reconciled again and again.. we're just giving same old reasons..we do have plans in our relationship as well in our personal life.. there are just hindrances in our personal life that prevents the plans to be achieved just like money.. family.. career.. but anyway thank you very much for that comment..
31 Jan 07
i used to feel exactly like u. we did the same things over and over day after day. it almost became annoying to me, i felt chocked somehow, the relationship didn't seem to be moving in any direction. we also had feelings for eachother and were faithful to each other, but it wasn't going anywhere. recently that has changed and we started making plans for the future, and i feel alot better. i don't have the same annoying feeling of not going anywhere and having to deal to mnotony in our every day lifes. i hope it gets better for the 2 of u also.
1 Feb 07
hey thanks for the comment.. plans for the future also helps but in our case.. future plans are just there..but acheiving it seems like a dream for me that won't come true..kust like today another day have passed and it seems like there's nothing change . Our day started at gud morning greeting up to gud night and sweet dreams just like that.. all i wanted is something new..something adventurous and challenging..
14 Feb 07
you are definitely bored and i can understand why. it seems there's no effort on the guy to do something new to spice up your relationship, add thrills to your relationship. my question is, is he deeply in love with you? well, you're still very young and a beauty... i suggest don't take your present relationship seriously.. keep you options open.. don't let your world revolves around him alone. perhaps your soul mate is yet to come.