i wanna get married

Philippines
January 31, 2007 7:01pm CST
wen i was a child i dreamt of having a family.. im now 25yrs old yet single..i fel so old.. my bf recently broke up with me which i thought would be the one.. i promise myself when someone comes along..i wont let him go..
3 people like this
16 responses
• United States
15 Feb 07
just make sure you pich the right person. otherwise your life could turn out really bad.
• United States
3 Feb 07
I learned this the hard way, and i think that it will be helpful for you. 'you can't make someone love you' it took me along time to understand that saying. I wouldn't be in such a rush if i were you. Because you are going to be let down. God has someone special picked out for you. just give it time, pray, and keep dating and have fun. you'll soon find the right one.
• India
3 Feb 07
dont be so anxious to get married..and dont be in such a hurry to commit yourself to someone, or else you will end up marrying the wrong person. Wait for the right person to come along, and I am sure he will definitely come. Be patient!!
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Dont be in a hurry. He might not be the one for you. Take time and pray for the right guy for you. You want to get married? Are you sure? Have you ask yourself if you are ready to accept the guy wholeheartedly? Can you accept how and who he is? can u accept him the way he is?Its not easy to live a married life.
@aaron2416 (152)
• India
3 Feb 07
Dont worry....ur time will come....make sure he is ur mr right one.
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Hey don't be in a hurry. 25 years old is not that old. You are still young. Just enjoy being girlfriend and boyfriend first, know each other and you will if he's for you... he is for you.
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Hey,retchill21,don't rush things especially when it comes to marriage because it a lifetime commitment and better get to know people deeply because you will never know their true self until you lived in the same roof.
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
If you think that will make you happy then go get married. But I suggest you should get to know the man very well before you decide to be his partner for a lifetime. You don't want to regret marrying him. Why are you in a hurry anyways?
• India
3 Feb 07
u r free to take decison about ur life .if want to get married then u go for it but first check it he is right person for u .he will keep u happy or not .he is ablle to fullfill ur needs in life or not .analyse him bcoz marriage is matter of whole u can't change husband like ur thought .he should be partner of ur every steps of life
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
Did he leave you because you wanted to get married? Marriage is not about wanting or needing to get married. Marriage is about two people wanting to live their life together and possibly have children. Most men are not in a hurry to get married these days. They don't feel that they can afford to support a family. A lot of 25 year old still live with their parents in order to save money on rent. You will need to look for a guy a few years older than you if you want to get married.
@addy4all (638)
• India
3 Feb 07
wellll the thing u can do is just b patient...everyone do have a partner...GOd is there and he sees everything...when time comes he will send a guy hu will love u and will keep u damn happy....
• United States
2 Feb 07
Yeah i always of that wen i was younger im 15 now and im stillt hinkin about it i wanna have alot of kids u know i love kids they make me happy
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i am 29 now and had a gf. we both are looking forward to get married soon, but as time goes on day by day my mind keep taunting me, troubling many questions in my mind. Is she really the one? Can we live longer in happiness? A sort of questions like that..
• United States
3 Feb 07
I'm 26 and have spent the last 5 years in a relationship. we were engaged and i called it off when he cheated on me. I realize now that everything happens for a reason. nothing is just coincidence. in just the past 6 months i have traveled to 3 places! your young, i'm young. enjoy it now. When your happy inside and confident, that is what the other person finds the most attractive! you will know when "the one" comes around. He won't break your heart. So focus on you, learn about who you are and what you like to do and soon you will find that he's right behind you =)
• United States
1 Feb 07
i was really anxious to get married to but now that i am i realized i made a big mistake i think i married the wrong man im 21 and i know i can be a good wife but not to somebody who is being a bad husband i thought it would get better but i was wrong
@mslena75 (561)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Just be sure not to settle for anyone just because you are keen on the idea of marriage itself. It is a lot of work! But well worth it if you find your true life partner. I said the same thing...I finally met Mr. Right and got married at 29! It WILL happen...for me I had to learn and know myself and be happy with me before I could cut out all the crap and find my mate.