help!!! my boyfriend is almost falling out of love with me!
By sazzy29
@sazzy29 (63)
Philippines
January 31, 2007 7:07pm CST
My boyfriend is falling out of love with me. We're almost 2 years now. Within that year, he always have a patience on me and keep on understanding my childish behaviour. I'm 2 years older than him but it seems that in our relationship, he's more mature than I am. I love him and I want him to love me like he used to loved me before. PLEASE HELP ME WHAT TO DO?
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6 responses
@jazzy101 (75)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
you know sazzy i really cant tel you what to do yet i can be of help in a way of giving you some tips on how to catch his attention...you should give
him time to relax,be sweetto him and show him that we women are the weakness of men.When it comes to beauty you do have a face that launched a thousand ships so all you have to do is show him that his lucky to have you.maybe your boyfriend is acting so different bec.he is streesed out of so many nuances then here you are annoying him..know what girl just be yourself and shun from acting childish behavior.good luck i know he loves you the way you are.
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@mariedaryl (33)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Well, I think that you're going through a normal phase in a relationship. relationship tends to grow sour after years of being together. try to talk it over with him. I don't think your childish behavior is the reason why he is falling out of love with you. I think, it is the reason why he still stays with you but Im not saying that you should act more childish . try to look for some ways to reignite his interest in you.
@sazzy29 (63)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
pls tell me some ways to reignite his interest in me. I have no idea. I 29 y.o but I have less experience in life when it comes to love.
He told me recently in our serious talk that he feels that I don't actually love him. I just want for companionship and scared that I may left alone at my age.
I love him and I need him to stay! I love the way he loved and care for me. It's just that maybe I'm being spoiled by him. pls tell me some ways to reignite his interest in me. :)
@leopardxtasy (2426)
• United States
1 Feb 07
when you get the answer please let me know because my husband already fell out of love with me
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
the answer is already there in your sentence my friend. Maybe your boyfriend is tired of your being childish. so if you want to save your relationship. you have to change. you have to grow up and be matured.
@candygurl24 (1880)
• Canada
1 Feb 07
Well, I personally think that you pointed out the problem yourself..you said he keeps understanding your childish behaviour. Why do you act childish if you want to keep him around? I'm not putting you down or being rude, but that's just what I got from your discussion starter.
You could try asking him what it is that he needs from you to continue on in the relationship...but remember, don't change who you are, but if there is no need for something like childish behaviour, get rid of that...that's not who you are, it's how you act.
