Broken Family will raise Broken Mind Child. Is it true?

Malaysia
January 31, 2007 11:35pm CST
I was in love so many times but most of my girlfriend coming from a broken family, such as the mother asking for divorce/ the father have other wife. Every relationship i have, will ended with separation and the separation is from my girfriend. Is it true, that broken family may give the idea of divorce as an option for their child too? because i never think that way in my relationship.
4 responses
@NancyLobo (680)
• India
1 Feb 07
I don't think it is always the case if the child comes from broken family they willseek for divorce, sometimes it may be true but sometimes they will work harder for the relationship to work as they have suffered the pain and they would not like their children to experience the same pain so they will try to stay in the marriage and work it out for better.
• Malaysia
1 Feb 07
i wish you are my girlfriend. Hehe. Just joking!
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
This may happen but it is not always the case. Some children in a broken home turned out to be excellent people and productive citizens and vice versa, children who were raised in a supposed to be good family turn out worse. It depends on the way children will take it as they enter into adulthood. A good counselling may help them to have an objective view of the matter and learn a lesson from them that will help them in their growth and development. In short, it is not an automatic thing.
• Malaysia
1 Feb 07
partly, i agree with you. But, isnt it home is the first education for the children? The environment that they have in their home will give them the view of the world.A good conselling may help in certain case.I think...
@MGjhaud (23251)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
i think not, not all. if a person came froma broken family it doesnt really mean that youll end up like it too. that depends to your single parent on how she/he brought you up in spite of the single-parent issue. and most of all it depends on you. its up to what you want, how you manage life, relationship like yours. dont blame a separation to someone's family background. not fair and reasonble.
@hattipunk (434)
• Nepal
1 Feb 07
yes it will raise dispute in a child mind..it will affect the child future..