Is Adjustment necessary?
By Bangalorean
@Bangalorean (1282)
India
January 31, 2007 11:38pm CST
I have been hearing from many that in any relation adjustments are a must for it to be sustained longer. Which means one of the persons in the relation would have to overlook on some of his dislikes and discard some of his/her likes. Wouldnt that suffocate and mar one's individuality?
1 response
@sylvrrain (659)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I think a better word would be compromise. Sure there are things that my husband likes that I don't, but we do not make a big issue of those things. I do my thing sometimes and he does his. I am still my own person, and just because I do something that he likes to do, does not mean I am losing my individuality.
I have been married to my husband for 25 years, and we get along great. He does his thing, I do my thing, and there are things we do together. Things have worked out fine for us, and we are very happy together.
