Getting married but don't want children.

@jinuxnet (675)
Philippines
February 1, 2007 8:08pm CST
I have a friend, she's getting married, But she don't want children right away. Whay should she do if his husband want children?
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@ank_47 (1961)
• India
18 Apr 09
she should talk with him about this matter before marriage. if he also agrees ,she can have children after some days or 2,3 years later. no one can interfere in their matters.
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
There are a lot of couples you will neet today who share this idea. They want to get married now but, children are to come at a much later date. I find this to be a very good way of leading family life however, the couple should have agreed on this one before they tie the knot. This will really be a fine scenario as the couple will have laid the necessary foundations of familly life when the children come along.
• United States
16 Apr 09
She should divorce his a*s if he wants kids. If he does and she doesn't, that's not going to work. Kind of like oil and water. Both the woman and the man need to understand where each other stands on the situation. If one wants kids and the other doesn't, then they've got to figure out if one of them can sacrifice what they want for the other. If they can't, then it's best to part company. I for one could never be with someone who didn't want kids or didn't like kids. I've got an 11 month old and she's my pride and joy. I know several people who don't want kids and that's okay for them. To each their own.