Kids????

@bronie123 (4588)
United States
February 2, 2007 12:11pm CST
I posted a discussion a while back about me not wanting kids. I decide that i will have kids its just that im not ready for them now. So what age would be to old to have kids?? Im thinking i will have them before im 30 (i think)
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• Pakistan
5 Feb 07
yes you are right you have to born 3 kids before 30 and 2 kinds after 30 so you can born 5 kids but the minimum age to born 1 kid at the age of 23 or 24 but in pakistna peopel have 8 to 11 kids now you can think better that what age you will born kind in minimum age and at the age of 34 you can born 11 kids hehehehehe..................... lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
12 Feb 07
yicks 5 kids that to many i think 2 is way to many LOL but thats how many my fiance wants
@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
12 Feb 07
11 your kidding right LOL
• India
2 Feb 07
As my opinion when you feel you can manage your kids and family at a time, after your 25 age you can have kids, but you must be mentally strong and need physically well. after having the kinds you should manage more tensions and you should spend most time with your kid. may i god bless U to get kid fast.
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
5 Feb 07
thnaks i don't want a kid fast though :)
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I think it is something you want to get through before you get to old It isnt good to have health problems when raising kids because they take a lot of effort They will not weakness and work against it. You need to take the time to parent and not allow them to win. Family is a team make sure you are ready to lead a team.
@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
12 Feb 07
not at the moment but maybe later i will be ready :)
@xXmeganxX (4421)
2 Feb 07
hi there, i think that's a reasonable age, i wouldn't have kids in my forties or late thirty's because that's as they say when your life starts and we don't want to be running around after kids but it's really up to you if you want them sooner than 30 or later than 30, it depends wether you feel ready or not! :O)
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I think 40's would be to old for me My mom had me when she was in here thirty but she had trouble getting pregnant
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• United States
2 Feb 07
past your 30's. It really depends on the person when they feel that they're ready to take on that respondsibility.
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Thanks for your answer :)
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• United States
12 Feb 07
There's no perfect age. I gave birth to our daughter just a couple months before I turned 36, and for me that was the perfect age! For some women, tho, the perfect age might be 26. One thing, you don't want to have kids just because you think you might be getting too old. I don't think one is ever really "READY" to have children, but age shouldn't be the deciding factor. Does that make sense?
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Yes that make sense thanks very much for you answer I have hear people in my office talk about a vertain lady that work in the building about she is way to old to be having a kid
2 Feb 07
I think when you don't have the energy to take care of kids is when you are too old, until then you are never too old! You are so smart to know that you aren't ready. Many women just have kids because that's what they are "supposed to do". I always wanted to be a mom and I love every minute of it, but it's exhausting! I don't think most women are ready for kids at the age I was. When you are ready you'll know. My mom had my youngest sister when she was 32, my sister is now 15 and they have so much fun together so I don't think that age was too old to have a baby.
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@bronie123 (4588)
• United States
5 Feb 07
thanks very much now my mom had me when she was in her 30's but she had trouble getting pregnant with me and my brother!! Im definallty not ready right now. Imscared of birth also!!!
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