how would you tell your loved one that you want to have another baby?
@cindyspassions (510)
Lampe, Missouri
February 2, 2007 8:21pm CST
well last october my hubby finally told me that he would like to have another baby. i at the time was not ready and other things came up and made him decide to wait as well. now i asked him the other night about it and he said in around about way that he did not want any more. now i am lost becuase i now would like to have one more. see we have 3 girls and i feel so bad becuase we don't have a boy he wants one and i want one so bad. i feel that he is disapointed becuase we have not had a boy. but now i would like to talk about having another but don't know how to when he told me that he is not wanting one now. what would you do?
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@cindyspassions (510)
• Lampe, Missouri
3 Feb 07
lol i was going to say that you where crazy until i seen that you where jokeing
@rusty2rusty (6771)
• Defiance, Ohio
3 Feb 07
I would just go ahead and tell him that I want another baby. I have never held back from husband in telling him this. Even after I got my tubes tied (for medical reasons) I still have the urge to have another baby. I have three kids now. He knows I want another one. He sees me spoil any baby I come in contact with. I have told him that if we ever win the lottery. We are going to adopt at least two more kids.
@cindyspassions (510)
• Lampe, Missouri
3 Feb 07
i have been told to adopt but don't know any thing about it. what it would cost where to go about it and all that. i would really rather have my own but that would work i think. i don't know this may sound funny but when i am pregante i feel like i could be one of the happest people on earth. of course untill i get to be about 8 months lol then i am ready to be done. see that wonderful baby inside me.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I can understand you wanting to have another baby. But if he was wanting one last October...give him some time and just tell him that you would like to try for a boy also. But at some point...there must be a stopping point.
I can tell you that from my stand point of having seven children, it is not easy!
Maybe your husband is worried about it on a financial stand.
Talk to him about it to find out why he does not want to try again.
Maybe he will want to try when the girls are a bit older.
How old are the girls?
