please respond :)

I think five years between is a good gap, but anymore than that is too much. Five years is enough space that they would be on the same maturity level emotionally, so they would be able to relate easily, but mid-twenties and older is too much of an age gap. That is someone entering the adult world of responsibility full on, and someone seventeen would never be able to understand the kinds of things the 25-up person were going through.

I think that's not too wide an age difference. Especially in the long term if they were to become a couple. As they age, the age difference wouldn't matter too much. I guess her parents are probably concerned for her well being. They fear that she might be conned by this guy. I think there's no need to reject him outright. Because this might lead to them dating secretly, which would be worse. Therefore, I think it would be better for her parents to ask her to invite this guy home so that they can get to know him better. That might help to assuage their concerns.

No mid twenties is too old for a 17 year old . They wouldn't share the same interests and he would be much more experienced then she would be in more then one way . Enjoy your life and try to find someone closer to your age , I am sure there are plenty of guys closer to your age that would be better suited to your age .

well i feel that the girl can date the guy as long she not only feels but he is really a good guy.i think if the girl wants to go on a date she can go but the priority of her parents comes first.she should have the courage to talk to her parents and tell them that there is nothing wrong in dating a guy who is just 3 years elder .things work out only when we talk about it.i hope your friend gets her issue resolved.anyway have a great day.

I think that you should be able to choose who you date. You should be able to date who you want and if it doesnt work out you would be the judge...your mistakes are ur choice to make not your parents. but all parents are different. Good Luck :D

well, for me.. if she really likes the guy then go for it.. as long as the guy is still single and don't have a gf yet :) i dont mind my daughter having a relationship with a guy 20yrs older than her than 20yrs younger than her....

Well, there are parents who think that their kids should date people who belong to their own age group. If I were in your friend's shoes, I'd talk to my parents and follow what I feel. They may disagree, but I'll show them that I am mature enough to know what I'm doing. =)