whats the worst thing a friend has done to you
February 2, 2007 11:05pm CST
Whats the worst thing a friend has done to you? Did you forgive them and are you still friends with them? I had a friend that claimed to be a true one, yet made in fun of my very bad car accident and my health condition. It really hurt than she bad talked me. I also had a friend years ago that came onto my hubby! I am no longer friends with either!
3 Feb 07
for me, the worst was when my bestfriend had a 6 months affair with my boyfriend of 3 years that time. i just learned it a year after they break up. when my bestfriend admitted to me what had happened, she even had the nerve to say "you should be thankful because he broke up with me because he choose you over me. you are lucky!" argh!
3 Feb 07
claim to be my bestfriend but twist the stories behind my back, saying the worst a person would say which I never did and swindle me. But God is just so good to forgive the pain people inflicted on me, sometimes it's not in the person but it's the Devil's acts, they are also the victims. I learned many lessons from friendship but I never stop loving all of them including the people who have hurt me so much. There can be limitations now but love is always there.
• United States
3 Feb 07
I had a short term friendship with a girl when I was around 18. For some reason she really seemed to want to be my friend and I have a soft heart so I let her hang out with me sometimes and she came to spend the night sometimes as well. We didn't even hang out that often but she had some weird thing with me. I don't really know how to explain it... I wasn't even popular. I had a couple of friends but I wasn't the type that I thought someone would follow me around. She kind of reminded me of myself so I suppose that's why I invited her into my life. She was a year behind me in high school and I had already graduated when she was going to graduate. She lived in a neighboring town but had graduation activities and wanted to stay with me. Well I had just met a guy that I really, really liked. He was good looking and really tall. The tallest guy I've ever dated. The guy and I didn't know each other that well yet and he invited me to a movie but my "friend" was with me and I didn't want to diss her for a guy but she said we should go anyway and the guy I liked had a friend that he brought so it would be a foursome and hopefully no one would be left out. That went OK and over the next couple of days we all hung out at a park and then went to the guys house that I liked. For some reason the guy I liked had me talk on the phone to his friend and my "friend" and the guy left the room. I never thought anything about it. Why would I have reason to doubt anything? His parents were home, I wouldn't have thought they'd do anything. So my "friend" and I went home and later that night, she confided to me that she and the guy I liked had made out outside while I was on the phone with his friend. The way she told me though was like she was confiding something wonderful with a treasured friend. I don't think she'd ever been kissed before but still... if you were friends with someone, would you really do that? And then tell them about it when you were spending the night at her house?? When I found out, I called my best friend and my supposed friend and I went over there and hung out. I told my "friend" that my best friend was going through a crisis and needed me. I did my best not to show her that I was hurt. Now, I should have just kicked her butt out of the house and let her parents come get her even though it would have taken an hour for them to come. I tried to have a relationship with her briefly after that but I just wasn't interested. Same thing with the guy, we got together one more time but it just fizzled out too. Later I heard that they had hooked up briefly but the guy ended up being a real player. Anyway, I hope that made sense. I guess I shouldn't type when I'm tired! lol
• United States
3 Feb 07
Even my Mom thought she was creepy and didn't want her coming around again. She was the kind of person that probably would go searching through your things when you weren't looking. Of course I didn't know that when I first met her... I can't believe it's been about 9 years now...
3 Feb 07
I used to have a very good friend whom I trusted and respected, always encouraged when things were down. We used to drink a lot at his house, and we had good times together. Then one day I brought my girlfriend over to his place and we drank until I could'nt drink anymore. I slept on the sofa, feeling confident about my friend. I immediately woke up around 10 minutes later and realized that they had left me. I began shouting and threatened to leave, but my girl followed me. outside. It was already around 3 am so we decided to stay. We left early that day and I told her to stay away. After a few days I found out that they had slept together, and I was furious. Good thing he left for another country or I could have done something bad him. Well, I dumped my girl, who unlit this day is still sorry and would like to get back to me. My former friend is now married to the ugliest b*tch that I have ever seen!! Guess that's karma ha ha ha