I am committed but I still entertain suitors! is that right?

Hi. sazzy29. I really think that it is dangerous and unethical to entertain your suitors while you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend. That is not right to carry on down lows with suitors while you already have someone else. Be careful when making decisions as this. Someone always seems to get hurt in the end.

From my personal point of view, it is not good to entertain others when one is committed. It is always good to be loyal and remains truthful and faithful in relationships.

In my opinion, I think it is unfair to entertain suitors when you already have a boyfriend and in a 5 year relationship. Don't treat them as suitors, treat them as friends so that it won't go like as if there are 3rd parties being involved in the relationship.

i have 2 thngs to point out choose where you at... 1. if you think you are comitted and your entertaining suitors then you just thought you are comitted but sure enough your not in its truest sense...how could you say your are, where in fact you are not committing yourself solely to your bf and only to his attention...commitment is not just a word and far beyond that.. 2. learning from others dont includes entertaining suitors while they are courting you dont even know if your are getting the truth from them or not...there are dfntely more ways to learn from guys than this... just a thought