Parents or Husband?

i suggest tell her to look for another job whereshe cn earn enough to feed both her husband and her parents... another suggetion.. ask her get her parentsstay as close to her as posible.. which wld mean that they will have more interaction with her hubby and gradually he will ease out on his issue.. further i want to know if her husband is working or not.. coz even that cld b a reason for his change in mind...

u always choose ur husband. when u get married ur husband becomes ur immediate family and u must put hubby and kids above mom, dad, sister, brother, ect. i had this problem at christmas but my fam didn't put me in the middle they let me know that i should choose my husband.

wow.. so good question.. for me both of them is important.. for man like me.. i think parents is a main important for me. nobody people in the world can take their place.. do u agree,,MAN

no she should think about both of them.

It sounds like her parents either hit hard times, or are very bad with money. If something happened to them, like an accident that disabled them and made them unable to work - yeah I would help take care of them. BUt instead of sending them HALF my salary, I would help them move into more affordable housing and teach them to make better choices with money. If this is because her parents have a gambling problem, or overspend their money - NO WAY would they get half my money. I don't care if they are my parents, I am not going to feed someone's spending problems. I would spend my money on buying them a financial consultant who could teach them how to set a budget, stick by it and help them find jobs for themselves. When you get married, you cleave yourself from your parents and you become a new family with your husband. I was not put on this earth to clean up my parents mistakes.