How could i say her" I got a new Girl"?

India
February 3, 2007 8:45am CST
It is very difficult for me to say to my current girlfriend that i got a new girl friend and i want to end relationship with her,but i will have to say, plz. help me you people, tell me how to say , i know this is quite difficult
5 responses
• United States
3 Feb 07
Ok, here's something for you to think about. With not much knowledge of your previous relationship with your girlfriend...if something was so wrong in that relationship that caused you to wander, and find a new girlfriend, are you sure it's the girlfriend that caused the problem? Are you sure you're actually wanting to have a committed relationship? I'm not trying to say anything bad about you because I don't know you, but it happens sometimes. We think we're ready for a relationship, but then we use something that has happened in our relationship as an excuse to run, and break up with the person. You're basically jumping from one relationship to another. Do you just not have feelings for her anymore? Was there some huge problem in your relationship with her? Did you try and talk about it with her, and fix that problem? Was there an open line of communication between the two of you? There many more questions out there, but I'll leave it at that. I only ask these things because if you don't find the answers to these questions, the same thing may happen again with your new girlfriend. My ex ended up leaving me for someone else over two years ago. I knew we weren't going to last, but the way things ended were really bad. I'm actually friends with all of my ex's...except for her. The chic she left me for...well she WAS a friend. I tried to tell her a few things, to make sure it was what they wanted, but she basically didn't hear a word I said. They've been having the same exact problems that I had with my ex!! She's starting to learn the things I said wasn't to bad mouth my ex, it was to inform her of how my ex is. Now she can see it for herself. My current girlfriend and I also had some problems not too long ago. She has a tendency to run when things start going good for her. She'll take the small problems and make them into huuuuuuuugeeeee problems. That's not a good thing...for her. We talked it out, found a way to communicate without actually talking to one another...which that in itself can cause problems, and now we're happier than ever! So before you start the whole relationship jumping, you should evaluate all your past relationship, and see if there are any similarities between them as to why they didn't work. You'd be surprised as to how similar they may actually be! Good luck with this. Oh.....if you really do want to end your current relationship, just tell her, be honest with her. Let her go. There's really no easy way to tell someone you don't want to be with them, but if that's truly how you feel, you've just got to tell her.
@tinapay (39)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
most men broke off with their gf by simply doing or saying nothing, as in literally nothing. just don't speak to her or don't see her. maybe she'll get the hint.
• United States
3 Feb 07
You need to go ahead and be honest, before both find out they are your only girlfriends supposedly. I know it will hurt her but just speak from your heart, tell her what you feel, why you've grown apart,etc and I would do it asap.Good luck!
@Phlamingho (7827)
• Denmark
3 Feb 07
Invite your new girl over some day, that ought to sort it all out by itself ;-)
@katan22 (325)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
In the first place, you should have broke with her before you got yourself a new gf. Maybe this only means or she might think that you were cheating on her all the time which will make the situation a lot harder than you think it will be. But for now, I think you should tell her as soon as possible because honestly as a girl, I think that you are already fooling her so in order to stop that, you should tell her honestly about how you feel and why you will break up with her. Try to explain to her in the best way that you can in order not to further increase the pain that she will feel.