Attitutde of wives

I am sure that there are plenty of things that I do that annoy my husband to no end, as I know there are habits of his that bother me. However, I'm not going to complain about him all the time. My husband is a wonderful, loving, caring, and supportive husband. He works very hard every day to provide for his family, and he makes it so that I can stay home full time with our children. My ex husband expected me to work full time, keep the house, mind the children, and stay up til all hours of the night in order to make him dinner when he decided to stumble in. He also hated that his paycheck would go to pay the bills as he wanted it for drinking and smoking (ciggies and mother nature). My husband now doesn't even have a physical paycheck, but it is directly deposited to our bank account, and I have total control over how the money in our house is spent. If my husband wants something, he asks for it, and I'll tell him if we can afford it that week or not, and he respects that, he doesn't get all moody and stupid. He helps care for our children. He works all day, and comes home and helps out in the house. He washes the dishes and cleans the bathrooms. I love my husband like there is no tomorrow and I really can't imagine my life without him. He has given me peace with myself, and shown me so much love and caring. He is a wonderful wonderful man, and I try very hard to tell him that regularly.

dear, i m married and i m also among those typical wives who complain about thier husbands. but to whom???? to my best friend, to his best friend or to our common frineds.he knows very well that there is nothing by heart in it........that was never a serious complain and if it would be then our friends just make us compromise afterall they are our friends.where there is no fight, there is no love. we fight, comlpain, tease each other and till evening we again compromise and go together for outing ...........thats life and i love it.

It depends on the husband and wife dear. How compatable and adjustable they are to one another. Women tend to be more emotional, and like things done a certain way.

its a routine yaar, dont be so serious, wives complain of husbands and husbands complain of wives....it happens in every home, two person have to adjust a lot to cope up with each other and there are expectations and so its very much difficult to fulfill all the expectations so they complain of each other...its a part of the game.

I think it's more about what they want or need. Some husbands aren't close. so can't win it's different for each case but those who are right for each other will be able to learn from each other and change. My wife doesn't complain at all. we have respect for each other in fact i often winge at her as a joke and she finds it funny. she sometimes does it back to me too but it's all fun at the end of the day. Maybe husbands don't do what there wife needs. did they moan before? ~Joey