love problem, help please!!!

@abhay10 (271)
India
February 3, 2007 11:25am CST
i hav a small problem, i am in love with a girl, she is just a friend of mine, but i dont know whether she loves me, i dont think so.. Now the problem is i want to tell her that i like her, but i fear that it might break our existing relationship.. pls someone help me!!
3 responses
@tinapay (39)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
hi. may i just know how old are you? in my opinion, if a friend tells me he likes me, i wouldn't take that as a reason for our friendship to end. it sounds immature. of course i would feel a little awkward especially if the feeling is not mutual (meaning i don't see our friendship going to the next level) but i won't let that get in our (friendship) way. if i value our friendship, i would explain to him how i feel and hope that by saying the truth won't hurt him. I suggest you tell her directly how you feel, its a risk you've got to face. you will never know what's on her mind until you tell her, maybe the feeling is mutual otherwise, i just hope she won't take in an immature way. well, good luck to you.
@abhay10 (271)
• India
3 Feb 07
i am 22, cllge student!! thanx for replying!!
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
3 Feb 07
yes i agree with telling her how you feel. id just set down with her and explain that being friends is great and you never want to lose that but you think you have fallen in love with her. if you dont then you might be missing out on something great. life is full risks. but you never know what would or could have happened if you dont try. i say go for it. best of luck
@abhay10 (271)
• India
3 Feb 07
thats the problem, i cant afford that risk.. i just cant, anyother way out??
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
I understand how you feel. I have encountered that situation already. But if you don't tell her what you feel, you wouldnt know if she feels the same way as you did. You have to take the risk of telling her what you feel.
@abhay10 (271)
• India
4 Feb 07
thanx for ur response!!