Is divorse is the last chance?

Kids aren't stupid, they are perceptive little humans. They can feel the tension and unhappiness and it puts alot of stress on them. Why stay in a miserable marriage just for the sake of the children? Sure, it'd be difficult for the parents and children to deal with a divorce, but it's best in the long run (in some cases). My parents divorced when I was 5 and I think it was a good thing for me. I can't imagine my parents being married-they are vastly different people.

I disagree. I think that if they are genuielly not in love or love each other than yes they should get divorced. I think that a lot of times couples lose the reason they married in the first place (those that married because they were in love that is). I think time together alone could be a big help - and maybe even counseling. But just because they're fighting or feel insecre doesn't mean that they should just give up and get divorced. I think that teaches children too that you should just give up and walk away. I think that anything that's worth having is worth fighting for. I think people need to sort out their misunderstandings - not just walk away. Their children will still suffer from those misunderstandings regardless if their parents are together or not.

well i think if the both are not comfortable with each other and want to get rid out ! then they must ! instead of spoiling whole life by remembering small moments !

There will ALWAYS be misunderstandings in a marriage. I know of no friendship or marriage where there has never been a disagreement. The problem is that these days, as distinct from a number of years ago, the very first response is one of divorce. This should never be. The idea of divorce should never enter the equation. The FIRST and ONLY response should be steps towards reconciliation and sorting out the problem. In many years of counselling couples, I have found the number one problem has been lack of communication. In so many cases, where they complain of continual argument and bickering, the couples are not able to say what the arguments are about. Neither knows what is bothering the other. When these couples are encouraged to sit and talk about their feelings, and analyse the problem, reconciliation is possible. One of the biggest problems children can face is the separation of their parents. Sometimes - especially when violence is involved - separation may be necessary, but even in this case, counselling can often help. Divorce should not be necessary, but at the very least it should be the final resort, with all other options examined first.

no i do n think its the last chance...they should give themselves more than 1 chance and see the results

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