is it normal / myLot

Sudan

February 4, 2007 7:27am CST

Since my wife gave birth to her first child last week, i feel as if an stranger has entered our life, which became suddenly a noisey one after it was very quite, i don't wether this feeling will continue or not!

2 responses

funfreak2k2

@funfreak2k2 (1734)

• India

4 Feb 07

sorry to say, your feelings are strange for me. children are the blessings of Allah, accept them with a smile in your heart. Allah will be happy. you will be able to change your feelings to your child. time makes every thing. when mind changes, you can enjoy any thing. seen your web site. its really great.

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abubakr

@abubakr (88)

• Sudan

4 Feb 07

thank you very much , I know those feeling are abnormal , for that reason i am astonished more than you to ward myself and even blaming myself , your words might help to improve my feelings , I need also experience of other new or old fathers thanks again .

abubakr

@abubakr (88)

• Sudan

3 May 07

Thank you the friend I really miss , might be you touched the point .

ravinskye

@ravinskye (8237)

• United States

3 May 07

Don't worry, I'm sure you feelings are normal. From a mom's point of view I didn't share the same feelings, but then again, it wasn't a stranger to me, it grew in my body. I'm sure the first time your child smiles at you, you'll feel entirely different.

@abubakr (88)

• Sudan

3 May 07

the opion of an experienced mom , I think your opinion is the most one of value to me , and after 3 months things are changing .