Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

I think if it is a combination of both than it is a strong relationship. and I strongly agree that it should be love plus arranged. well I hate stricktly arrange marriages because what if they don't like each other. every one has a right to live their own way. well atleast to live with a person they want.

I don't think there's anything wrong with arranged marriage as long as the partners have a chance to meet and decide beforehand. I don't agree with people being forced. If the partners meet, go out a few times, and decide to go through with it, that's great! But if one or the other absolutely does not want to, their families shouldn't be pushing them together. I prefer to find my own guy (as I already did) but don't think there is anything wrong with set ups.

The arranged marriages offend the institution of "marriage"! This institution is supposed to unite persons who LOVE eachother and not love what the other can offer ! If i could do that, i would ban and send into prison everyone getting married for any other reason than love.

I believe marrages are made in heaven, so its not love or arrange, what matters is the the quality of life you living, Ask this question do you have the bonding, the trust, the believe in you and in your partner. I have seen arrange marrages where their you have bitter end, so is it really because of the arrange marrange....certainly not, you just have to have the basic. If your basic is clear then it really doesn't matter if its a arrange or love marrage.

i will go for love marriage...in love marraige u can fully come to know of the partners nature..u can select a person of ur choice..but in india marriages r mostly arranged...

I prefer love marriage. I believed that making you marry someone you dont love is a big no no. How can you stay with someone for the rest of your life when you dont love him? I know some arrange marriage works but how will you go about it if yours dont work?

i want to love first and then i ll make it arranged...but i believe arranged marriages are strong because it has the blessing of all ur relatives and then they ll be there for u throughout ur life

I agree with the above poster. I don't think that arranged marriages are bad, but I do agree that the couple should get to meet before getting married to make sure that they really are ok with marrying each other. If they are having doubts or are really against marrying the person, then the wedding should definitely be called off. I prefer to marry for love, and I'm engaged to a man who I'm deeply in love with and can't wait to get married! I'm glad that I was able to choose my own husband, because I feel like it was a life experience and also a good learning experience. I also feel like it makes me appreciate him more since I actually had to find him on my own. I also like that we got to know each other and become really close and test out our chemistry with each other and become really comfortable together before getting engaged. I think both marriages can work though, but I do prefer a love marriage for myself.

Well i completly beleive on arange marriage.