what do think about listening to some people? Blunders and stupid quotes? 2 case

This is so well stated that it's difficult to add to it. My parents were very involved in our lives and were always there to encourage us in every way; we never got "fake" praise, but if we did a good job with something we knew it. And they offered constructive criticism in order to help us grow. Too many adults are afraid these days that constructive criticism will "harm the psyche" of the children. They give false praise for mediocre work and half-hearted attempts at projects, thus the kids grow up thinking that they can do no wrong. I think that it's so important to encourage children to follow their dreams and to strive to be the best that they can be. It's better to offer constructive criticism and help a child to find a better way than to flat out tell them "you aren't good enough to do it" or to falsely inflate their egos.