MARRIAGE

Kenya
October 11, 2006 3:31am CST
please i really want to know does marriage really work;and if it does what are the secrets to a successfull marriage?
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@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
14 May 07
there's no really secret for a marriage tobe succesful. it basically needs two way traffic...both of you should be willing to love, forgive, trust, and understand each other. if not then your marriage would just turn to waste.
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• Philippines
14 May 07
hi GLAWANG i'm ferdie, i have posted a topics regarding your question regarding if marriage does relly work, and what are the secrets of a successful marriage. it is only short one but you can learned the important factors and ideas on how to have a successful marriage. please find the tag; SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. THANKS
@Betso221 (1699)
• India
11 Oct 06
de secrets for a successfull marriage are both should b truthful 2 each othr. Bot should spend a lot of time discussin things likes how was work whether somethin new hapeened 2 day.If u chat 2 ur wife nd luv her a lotzzz i feel u can have a very happy married life.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 06
im not married yet but the key for succes is respect each other, comunicate, doing your job and everything will be ok
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
14 May 07
Hello, glawang, I am not a good advisor but I will try to put some input based on my marriage experience. I believe that a marriage can work if there is a good religion background, mutual respect, understanding, give and take, accepting personality imperfections, tolerance and most importantly, a good communication between couples. I believe that before entering a marriage, one must really understand that it is a lifetime commitment. I guess there wont be any divorce if we know the secrets to a successful marriage. All the best.
@anlelan (90)
• China
14 May 07
I have marriaged four years. Last year I have a beautiful baby . I love my husbend and my baby . They also love me. I think the secrets to a successfull marriage is love and fealty.
@dublinda (135)
14 May 07
Trust, honesty, friendship and good communication are all very important but you also have to work at a marriage to make it successful. It is like gardening "you reap what you sow". If you both put in the work then it will be a good marriage and will blossom and bloom but if you do not work at it then it will become full of weeds and not feel strangled.
@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
14 May 07
All have answered well here but I would add one more thing. your spouse should be your best friend. you should be friends with the person before love, then you will be happy with spending the rest of your life with that one person.