what do u do when your bf is treating you bad... but not that bad.....

February 5, 2007 4:59pm CST
if u really like this guy....but sometimes he wouldnt treat you nicely..with respect...is being a total jerk 50% of the time.... but sometimes hes really sweet and considerate...!!! what would you do.....would you leave him ...or continue your relationship and hope for the best??!!
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9 responses
6 Feb 07
every girl deserves respect...!! and jerks such as guys should understand that...!! my advise would be to dump him....(to whom-so-ever it may concern!!). you obviously deserve some1 better sweets...!! and girls like you ...will get any1!! so dont worry too much about it!!
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
6 Feb 07
50% of the time? I'd leave. You're young, there are a ton of fish in the sea and you can find someone to respect you 100% of the time. Of course, he may have no idea he is mistreating you and the adult thing to do would be to talk to him first. Point out his behavior and be open to talking about it. If he doens't change, leave. Everyone deserves to be respected and treated well.
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@carabear (167)
• United States
6 Feb 07
If he's a jerk 50% of the time spent 50% of your time finding a replacement for him that is a jerk only 0% of the time. :-D
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
5 Feb 07
Boys are like that only, read this book men are from mars and women from venus and then you will understand this is a very normal behaviour of all the males.
• United States
5 Feb 07
More to the point, what would you do? Do you deserve a 50% jerk and a 50% nice guy? If so, keep him. Do you deserve a 100% good guy, dump the 50% jerk ~donna
• United States
6 Feb 07
If my boyfriend treated me really bad and had no respect for me at all then i would leave him. Men don't change over night, and some just don't change at all. Things will only get worse if you stay with him. You have to look our for yourself, because if you don't then no one else will.
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@vinoth_123 (1876)
• India
5 Feb 07
If person is 50% good 50% bad means we can try to change his atidute we can make him a good person the society.
@inplano (298)
• United States
5 Feb 07
You should talk to him and find out why is he so inconsistent with his behaviour. He needs to understand that you may not remain as patient as you are today and maynot be as accepting of it because at teh end of it , it is a sign of disrespect which cannot take you far when in a relationship
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I will have a "heart to heart" talk with him. I will tell him what I really feel.I think communication will slve any problem.