Why would you wish you were never married?

I have never married myself. I am yet to attain legal age for marriage, here in India it is 21. I am still a few days away from it. I am excited, I am not going to marry at least for four years from now, but it sounds exciting, but it is an important decision to make. One false move may ruin your life.

Many people get married for "love", or at least societies portrayal of love. I think you honestly need to find someone that will work with you, compromise and meet you half way with everything. You have to have mutual respect and a genuine caring for this purpose. You can be happily happily married even if your not "in love". You need to marry to make your life and your partner's life better. Divorce rates in the US anyways are around 58-63% now, this I feel is due to immaturity within the "love" feelings. Marrying because you enjoy being with that person for a couple years, is good, but you should also be able to go to work, cook, clean, go on vacation, most important take care of each other is all essential. Wishing to never be married is like saying "I Love You" now-a-days you say i love you one day and say i hate you another. SOCIETIES LOVE + MARRIAGE = DIVORCE. Lets build upon strong morals, and mutual respect, with genuine care for each other, and steer from lust and love.

There are times I wish my husband would take a vacation on the moon, but I would never wish I was not married. I remember what it was like to be lonely. I think some people forget that and then regret their hasty decision to get a divorce.

I do not wish i am never married.when i am single,i always have dinner alone.it is a bad time for me.I am glad to cook and have meal with my wife.

My experience.... too long to share but even though I am separated, I would say I learned a lot from the marriage and it has made me a better person. If you were to ask me if I could change it, I really don't know if I would. That would be a tough answer and am glad I will never have the opportunity to go back in time and make that decision. I'm happy the way things are now and will only look forward, not backwards.

If the wife make the man life bad and hurts him and spends alot of money he say that he with he never married before