family feud... how should parents handle it?

Philippines
February 5, 2007 9:58pm CST
i had a big big fight with my eldest sister & it's been months now since we last talked to each other & she's doing & saying anything she wants up to this day... i, on the other hand is on the verge of losing my control but my parents & my other sister keep trying to cool me down. Honestly, i didn;t do her wrong not even a bit i fought back not for myself but for my parents. And to add to that she let her new husband say bad things about me... to make it short my parents now are in good terms with her but i don't feel the same sincerity on her part. NOw they are trying to convince me to make peace with her... somehow i feel bad bcoz my other sis & her family & my parents makes me feel they are taking sides & that they can't stand up for me.My parents & i are ok and i feel hurt & a bit angry bcoz i know the feelings between them is not really mutual. I know that parents shouldn't take sides but what must they do so i won't feel how i am feeling now. yes, we're ok but it hurts me to see that they're ok too while my sis keeps doing what she wants to me & they can't make her stop. I am really hurting...I can't stop them from what they're doing just for the sake of peace but i feel alone bcoz i feel that no one in my family can fight & stand up for me...
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