I am raped by my Uncle. What shoud i do?

India
February 5, 2007 10:34pm CST
I have been raped last month by my uncle. He invited me to his home ans did it with me. Now he is threatning me that no one should know about this. WHat should i do.shall i telll this to my parents? pls help me
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Feb 07
Your profile states that you are a 22 year old male? Is this correct?? If so, then the right thing to do in my opinion is to not only inform your family but also the police. You are an adult and are solely responsible for your own decisions and your own life. What has occurred is wrong, immoral and illegal. Family member or not, male to male or male to female, rape is rape and is a non-consensual physical attack that should not go unpunished.
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• India
9 Feb 07
well thanks friend. I wil do it
@mamajena (122)
• United States
7 Feb 07
Honey you need to tell someone. If you can't talk to your parents go talk to a teacher an adult friend or someone in law enforcement. I will tell you that it will not be easy to talk about and it is not easy to prosecute because you will have to testify against him. Avoid further contact with your uncle at all costs. Don't try to deal with it on your own get some help now. Find someone any one you trust to protect you and confide in them they will take it from there
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• India
9 Feb 07
thanks yar for ur advise. i will try to folow urs
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@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
9 Feb 07
Tell to your parents as soon as possible. There aren't other possibilities.
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• United States
9 Feb 07
You definately have to tell someone. What he did was wong and it was not your fault. The best suggestion I can give is to find a rape counseling number in your area. You can call in and they can help you. I'm sorry you had to go through this.
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@Mazna123 (65)
• India
7 Feb 07
u r actully waiting..... go tell ur parents...tell the cops... cmon now do it witout wastin more time,,,,, u hve gone thru so much trauma... great tht u are still stable sme girls are effected so badly they are in really bad state..... please iwud request u waste no more time and take action immidiately agaisnt ur uncle.....
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• India
10 Feb 07
Don't hesitate to tell this thing to someone. Somehow you should make all the people surrounding your uncle about this bad thing. He should get ashamed of himself. mentally torture him, don't rest.
• India
11 Feb 07
thanks friend. i will try
@berry9 (590)
• India
10 Feb 07
i do not know how this happened.are you raped or did you do it on your own will?if he raped you then definetly tell your parents that he misbehaved with you.try to get some counselling so that your mind set can be made alright.most important is the recovery from the disaster you came acrodss.
• United States
9 Feb 07
Yes you should go to your parents immediatly. He is threatening you because he doesnt' want to get caught or in trouble. You need to be up front and tell your parents, this way he can get caught and hopefully NEVER do this to you or anyone else again. Don't let him get away with it!!
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Yes dear you have to tell your parents about it. How will you get justice if you didn't. Don't be afraid dear. And if you didn't tell it to somebody, it might happen again because he will keep on threatening you. Believe me. God bless you and Good luck... I'll pray for you.