We recently broke up with my girlfriend!!!!!

First off, I'm sorry to hear about the break up... 2ndly, you should NEVER hate yourself or anyone else..My mother always say you "dislike" someone or their ways "hate" is such a harsh word... Personally, I feel you have to go with your heart...Sometimes you have to let your heart mend and move on...Prime example, she couldn't even give you a reason as to why she wanted to break-up. As bad as that sounds, you have to based your heart on that..Maybe she wasn't the right female for you... I suggest with that being said, you move on with your life and find someone who willing to communicate with you openly rather than not knowing if there is anything wrong in your relationship...It's probably for the best... I hope your heart mends and you meet someone that willing to give 100% as you are...Good Luck

Don't hate yourself or your girlfriend, it just makes things harder for you. Try to distance yourself from her and distract yourself by doing progressive things so you won't keep on thinking about what happened. DOn't dwell too much on her.

Do you guys have any arguement this past few days? Or have you cheat on her? If you do, then maybe she seen you that made her decide like that. Maybe your task is to find out why? If you love her then ask any reason why did she break it up with you. Your decision is always be in your hands.

Oh my, with out know more I can't give a well thought out reply, but I will make one with what I do have. She did not give you a reason, non at all? How long have y'all been together? Was there cheating involved or just distance? These are things I would like to know. If she just broke it up like that with out warning, perhaps she has another boyfriend, or did not feel a spark with you or she could just be a spoiled person who did not get her way about something and is pitching a fit. I am not sure, but if she just broke up with you without a reason, why would you want to be with her for the long haul when she could just up and leave you for any reason and really stop you in your tracks.

Find out first the reason why she broke up with you. I think it's just fair that you should know the reason why. Then it's up to you if you still want to fight for the relationship or not. If either party doesnt want the relationship to work out, then i guess it's no use even if you still fight for it.

try to get to her. explain her she can't do this anything without any reason. might be she has some genuine reason and can't tell you that..if she really wants to go let her go..remember this " it gives you pain to see your loved one happy with someone else, but its more painfull to see her unhappy with you" it might be some other reason i am not forcing topic on one reason but then try to win her not grab her that will be better

two things that u should do.. 1st: if u really love her try to built up again ur relationship... 2nd: if u really hate her go find a new one... hehe... its all up to u...!~