wat will u do if u find ur love going around with someone else???????

February 7, 2007 3:39am CST
its a true incident that happened to my frnd.........my frnd n her gf was broken up 1 month earlier but still my frnd luvd her like crazy n then oneday he saw his only n only love with someone else......holding hands............now can u feel wat pain he had to feel...........so wat will u do in such situations..........???????
5 responses
• United States
10 Feb 07
I apologize in advance for my candidness, but if I saw my girlfriend holding hands and being affectionate with another man I would immediately dump her. But, If we were already broken up, I wouldn't care. Simply put - Once a couple breaks up, you aren't a couple any more. So if seeing an Ex being affectionate with another person bothers you... GET OVER IT. Because it IS over. How can I stress this enough, people. Sometimes I think worrying about relationships will be the downfall of man. It some cases, it was. Move on, move on, move on and Move On. Trust me on this one.
@muye82 (26)
• Nigeria
10 Feb 07
i will find out wat is btw them and if i find out that they are datin then i will let go of her before she really hurts me
@ssh123 (31086)
• India
7 Feb 07
Human thy jealousy!! I donot understand the logic behind men or women thinking wrong if their gf or bf is going out with someone. Why do not you think that they are going out withone with some specific work, like she is going with her cousin for some purchase, with her neighbour to fetch something?
@aksagi (413)
• India
7 Feb 07
she double crossed him n his so called dreams are shattered.... Leave her n go for some other girl.... She will repent later...... Being a male u should try to forget her whenever she came make her mess for it in most possitive way by showing all decent approach n very gently saying NO what so ever she says n want.. GIRLS ko to RAB ni samaj sakeya asi kaun hunde ha.
@earth2jacq (1503)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
First what your friend needs to realize is that he is no longer in a relationship with his ex-gf. Clearly she has moved. If he really loves the girl he will free her to be with someone else that she chooses. Out of all the people in the world one or more people is dealing and nursing a broken heart right now. Pain is essential if your friend's heart ought to heal. After pain is acceptance. Acceptance that they are no longer a couple so he has got to find a way to let her go.In the meantime, be with your friend if he needs you. But don't force it if he prefers to be alone. I would suggest that you go on a new activity together. Try yoga as it calms he mind and rids the heart of it woes. Check this out: www.bikramyoga.com or you may want to go on taebo sessions so your friend can release his anger while working out. Who knows his true love just might be there.