is it a crime to admire women
@emekus4eyes (129)
Lagos, Nigeria
February 7, 2007 9:31am CST
I am an artist and i appriciate the work of God everytime. I like admiring pretty women. My wife does not find it funny when i tell a lady that she is beautiful. Down in my heart i do not mean any harm. I do not have relationships with other women, cause i am married. So can't i appreciate a pretty work of God because i am married. I can't stop myself appreciating such a sturning work of art (women).
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I don't think that it's admiring beautiful women, or appreciating God's work that is bad, but I do think if you love your wife that you should keep your thoughts on it to yourself. Maybe by you bringing it up about other women it makes her feel insecure about how you view HER. She might even feel you don't think she's attractive anymore, and that you are shoving it in her face. Be kind to your wife by not mentioning it, it's like slapping her in the face!
@ctinabina (386)
• United States
7 Feb 07
Good points JoyfulOne! I also wanted to add that "admiring other women" isn't necessary always a bad thing. A lot of it has to do with context and what specifically your actions are.
@lucy121 (36)
• Nigeria
12 Feb 07
Well it's not bad to appreciate the good things of life or women but if you speak of it with so much passion to your wife she will not find it funny angry so watch it
@ctinabina (386)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I think that you're missing the point. The point is not whether you feel women are beautiful or not, but rather that you wife feels uncomfortable with it. Considering that your spouse is someone that you will need to get along with for the rest of your life, I would suggest tempering your admiration of other women and admire your wife instead.
