unconventional families

United States
February 7, 2007 11:53am CST
I was watching TLC on television the other night, and i happened to come across a program which followed a family where the father became transgender. He became a she when his daughter was seven and his son three. A recurring question that arose throughout the program was what the effect would be on the children. The father argued that although she was concerned about his children growing up in a family without a male role model, she felt like a better parent, as she was more content and more stable. So it got me thinking what is really important in a family. Is it that there must be positive male and female role models for a child to look up to, or could a loving, nurturing home be enough? The majority of my time growing up was spent with females, and as a woman, I feel stronger because of that. I was always supported and never believed that a woman was any less capable of anything than a man. I do believe that my outlook on gender roles would be different if I had a male role model, but i don't know if it would be better or worse. I think it is more important for a child to have a loving family than a defined male and female role model.
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@peni88 (469)
• United States
7 Feb 07
i too saw that program. i think that the way they handle the transition was very well thoughtout. they just didnt spring it on the kids. and they had a meeting about it. i had seen them on another show a couple of years ago. i think that as long as the kids are in a happy and stable home, they should be fine. they seem to be handling it very well.i think that kids in any type of unconventional family, should do fine as long as theyre raised in a happy and healthy enviornment. just because a family doesnt consist of a mother and a father doesnt mean that the child wont be loved. if the parents arent happy their children wont be happy either.