What would you prefer, Love or Trust?

United Arab Emirates
February 7, 2007 6:58pm CST
What would you prefer from your boyfriend/girlfriend? Would you want them to stay faithful but not have that much feeling for you or would you rather they love you but they might have an affair or cheat on you? I personally would want love, because if someone truly does love you they wouldnt hurt you like that? Post your opinions and lets see what the real answer is.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I would also choose love but not because I believe that trust will come with love. Many people seem to equate love with physical intimacy. I don't see it that way. They are two separate aspects of a relationship. It's not about "if he loves me he won't cheat", that would be selfish. If WE love each other then WE will maintain our relationship in whatever way we see fit. If that means being physically intimate with others then so be it.
• United Arab Emirates
8 Feb 07
Best comment yet! I really do think love is the main thing that keeps a good relationship going.
• United States
8 Feb 07
I think trust and love go hand in hand. If a person trusts you, then that person truly loves you. Love can't occur without trust. Even if we trust and love someone, because we're humans and not perfect, we sometimes get to hurt the ones we love. Even then, this person will get back with all sincerity and would ask to be forgiven, and will not fall again. I believe that's how it would go for true love.
@chumm525 (169)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
I'll go for both becasue if you really love someone you should trust him/her. Love and trust really comes in a package.and if trust is broken in a relationship love can be vanished and it can lead to a broken relationship.
@kirenz (374)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
I will perfer being faithful. because if someone is faithful to you that means the person somehow cares for your and if the person cares for you there is no way the person will try to hurt your feelings. so its abvious he or she will not cheat on you. if you stage love. first somes honesty then its love then again it is coverd with honestly. no relationships can last without it.
@red1976 (92)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I would say that if they really love you, they would not hurt you anyhow. Just like you said! With true love comes trust!
• United States
8 Feb 07
Without trust, In my opinion, true love cannot be found.