why is it important to you, to have a child in a relationship?
By Kunal Vijan
@kunalvijan (3411)
India
February 7, 2007 8:47pm CST
I have known couples who have wanted to make babies and start a family immediately after they got married, but I have to ask, why? I mean kids cost alot, but everyone seems to have one! diapers, formula, meals, schooling, books, the listgoes on! and then, you are responsible for every decision your child makes when they are outside the home, and you literally have to watch them every minute when they break your trust. So, my question is, why? Is it really that important? why do you choose to have kids?
3 responses
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Family is compose of father,mother and children!In a relationship especially after married, its great to have kids.They are angels and gift from above which means fruits of your love!They usually make the relationship more stronger and happy being a FAMILY!
@leahmae (105)
• Australia
8 Feb 07
well, raising a kid is never easy. it involves a lot of responsibilities so whenever you make that decision to have a kid, make sure you really are ready for the consequences.
i cannot imagine my life without having kids. material things in this world come and go. but with your kids, they are your legacy even if you don't exist anymore in this world. i like the idea that i've left something in this world which is truly a part of me and my husband.
