what would you say if once in your life you fall inlove with a married man?

Philippines
February 8, 2007 3:29am CST
will you go for it for the sake of love?
6 responses
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
It happened to me before. I fell in love with a married man. Though they were already separated, I still couldn't think of having a relationship with him. I tried, actually, we tried but it never worked out because there's someone who keeps bugging me... Their child... It really depends on the girl if she'll go for it or not.. Both parties should come up with a compromise or deal that would be beneficial to them.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
i am right now in love with a married man..but he is separated. though not legally. he's been separated for almost a decade now. i think there's nothing wrong with falling in love with a married man as long as both of you are ready to face whatever consequences of the act.
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• United Arab Emirates
5 May 07
I did it not just once. But I found only one true love among them. He is a married man, living with his wife and their son. He said that their relationship is in a rocky road and he needs someone to hold him. I was always there for him. Whenever he needs me, I would run to comfort him. But I am not selfish. Unlike other mistresses around, I never competed with his wife. Instead of telling him to abandon his irresponsible wife, I would advise him to go home and talk with his wife and make up with her. The relationship lasted for 3 years because I realized that I need to be happy without him and I do not want to see myself at the losing end. I am now happy with my husband because I can handle our marriage very well because of the lesson that I have learned from my past. I have no regret being his mistress.
@miaka13 (65)
• Philippines
6 May 07
If he is separated, I would go for it. Love knows no boundaries. But I won't compete with his wife or his children. I would play the role of a friend by fulfilling all the need he did not get from his wife.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
I think, sometimes, when people fall inlove, regardless of the outcomes, people tend to pursue or continue the relationship because in a way teh relationship gives something for the both of them.
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
Love is coupled with respect and responsibility. Once you entered unto the life of a married man, you added his confusion as to his relationship with his wife. If they have marital problem and became hot tempered with their situation and here you come with that sweet concern to the man, you are like that big snake trying to persuade the troubled one. Love must make life happy for all not for you two alone and give a hell for the wife and children. Today, you two will be happy but you did not make your Creator happy with your falling in love to a man who have already given a vow to his wife. Sorry if I hurt others with this sharing but life really is valuable and holy, thus we will return it back to the Holy One.
• Philippines
15 May 09
I was hurt when i read these messages...co'z im starting now to fall inlove with a married man...we just developed recently through teleponing and texting...i don't know what to do. I'm still single...have lot of suitors...but i don't know what strange feeling is thissssss? But...after i read ur sayngs...i realized that you are right...pls advise me what to do?