does love really hurt???

India
February 8, 2007 3:32am CST
hi friends,i think i am in love with a guy who likes me but cant be my life partner...sumwhere its hurting me....he is a very gud person i respect his dessision love cant be done forcefully and i dnt want to loose him as a friend...plz tell what to do.....should i continue my friendship forgetting th love....plz reply...
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12 responses
@jaya1123 (122)
• India
8 Feb 07
if love is real then it really hurts
• India
8 Feb 07
but he is a gud frnd i dnt want to loose him
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@jaya1123 (122)
• India
8 Feb 07
just a friend than why are bothering to leave him
• India
9 Feb 07
a friend whome i love and i knw we cant be together as life partners
• China
8 Feb 07
I think love will hurt you if without good result
@yueliu (1623)
• China
9 Feb 07
we will have a good result ~~gonggong~~
• India
9 Feb 07
firedog can u explain wht is gud result? i dint got wht u said..
@Redkitty (480)
• India
13 Feb 07
friendship is better then love so take ur own decision
• India
13 Feb 07
thx a lot redkitty...i hv chossen friendship..
@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
12 Feb 07
it can hurt u but real love do not hurt u at any stage of life...u shd continue wid ur frndshp but do not in luv with him.
• India
13 Feb 07
thx a lot hamlet...i will continue
• India
12 Feb 07
God gives answer in 3 ways.. he says yes and gives what you want, he says no and gives you something better, he says wait and gives you the Best! Have some patience, bless you!
• India
13 Feb 07
thanku john...i am waiting pateintly for my love of life
• India
10 Feb 07
You always will find yourself in these type of situations.Some time it looks like its mere a world of comprmoses each and every step we had to compromise.Thats the situation with you.See its true that you love him and want to be with him but destiny is not supporting it so its time when you show some strengt and face t.If you leave him it will bad as he will think that you were mean so if you dont got him you left.So in my opinion be with him Its hard I know but you got face it strongily1!! bye all the best
• India
10 Feb 07
thx a lot mohit....i will sure be with him alwayz....
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
yes it does. love always comes with a sacrifice. in your case, if you think you're not meant to be then cool down a bit. give yourself a break. you may feel the pain in a long run but that's part of the healing process. once you've fully recovered from a heartache, go see him again but only as a friend. that's life. we just have to get up after every fall. good luck.
• India
10 Feb 07
thx a lot ciennabelle..
@mannari (110)
• India
10 Feb 07
yup really hurts and badly when it is one sided, so be aware
• India
10 Feb 07
now wht to do, love happened.....jst hv to take care tht i dnt loose him..thx for ur reply
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Love really hurts. You don't feel love of you don't feel pain. You know, you have to choose between love and friendship. But if he can't love you back, try to accept the fact that you are only meant as friends.
• India
9 Feb 07
thx a lot cheerldr...well its true we r made as frnds...hope atleast i wont loose such a gud frnd...but i will still love him as a frnd
@Neo_Knights (1887)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 07
Yes, sometimes love hurts, but only if you take it seriously. Let me tell you my story. There was a beautiful girl, the most beautiful girl in my school. I feel in love with her. So I start by call her, and almost everyday we talk to phone. We talked sometimes in school. I bought her expensive present, something she collected. And the day when I finally reveal my feeling, she did not answer. she asked time, a week, and I agreed. One week later I called her but her mom said that she's out. I called her everyday for about a month. And it broke my heart because she did not want to answer my call. So I decided not to talk to her anymore. My heart hurts. After 2 month I feel very lonely, and fortunately I met her, and I started to flirt her again, and she flirted me back. Boy, I feel alive again ! And from that moment, I decided, I can be her friend and still love her. That's better than I can't even see her again but still love her. until now I still love her although she had married.
• India
8 Feb 07
beautiful story.....thx a lot neo...i got my answer...i will alwayz love him as a gud friend..thank u..
@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
8 Feb 07
It may be infatuation, are you sure you love him? Secondly, if you love him and some how know that he cant be your partner for life, then what worries you. Love does not mean, that it should end up rolling in bed (sorry for me being outspoken). Its a feeling of warmth and feeling of happiness & joy. So dont loose a person, whose presence makes you happy and forget all your worries. Continue your friendship and enjoy every moment of it, instead of brooding over a wrong decision later
• India
8 Feb 07
thx alot...i knw its not an infactuation its love but i wont loose him...he will alwayz be my gud frnd...thanku.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
I think there is nothing wrong if you still continue your friendship with him as long you as you can teach your self how to forget your love on him. Do you tell to him your feeling for him?..Why don't you try to tell him that you like him.. I think there is nothing wrong about it. My friends always doing that when they really like someone.