does love really hurt???
February 8, 2007 3:32am CST
hi friends,i think i am in love with a guy who likes me but cant be my life partner...sumwhere its hurting me....he is a very gud person i respect his dessision love cant be done forcefully and i dnt want to loose him as a friend...plz tell what to do.....should i continue my friendship forgetting th love....plz reply...
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10 Feb 07
You always will find yourself in these type of situations.Some time it looks like its mere a world of comprmoses each and every step we had to compromise.Thats the situation with you.See its true that you love him and want to be with him but destiny is not supporting it so its time when you show some strengt and face t.If you leave him it will bad as he will think that you were mean so if you dont got him you left.So in my opinion be with him Its hard I know but you got face it strongily1!! bye all the best
10 Feb 07
yes it does. love always comes with a sacrifice. in your case, if you think you're not meant to be then cool down a bit. give yourself a break. you may feel the pain in a long run but that's part of the healing process. once you've fully recovered from a heartache, go see him again but only as a friend. that's life. we just have to get up after every fall. good luck.
8 Feb 07
Yes, sometimes love hurts, but only if you take it seriously. Let me tell you my story. There was a beautiful girl, the most beautiful girl in my school. I feel in love with her. So I start by call her, and almost everyday we talk to phone. We talked sometimes in school. I bought her expensive present, something she collected. And the day when I finally reveal my feeling, she did not answer. she asked time, a week, and I agreed. One week later I called her but her mom said that she's out. I called her everyday for about a month. And it broke my heart because she did not want to answer my call. So I decided not to talk to her anymore. My heart hurts. After 2 month I feel very lonely, and fortunately I met her, and I started to flirt her again, and she flirted me back. Boy, I feel alive again ! And from that moment, I decided, I can be her friend and still love her. That's better than I can't even see her again but still love her. until now I still love her although she had married.
8 Feb 07
It may be infatuation, are you sure you love him? Secondly, if you love him and some how know that he cant be your partner for life, then what worries you. Love does not mean, that it should end up rolling in bed (sorry for me being outspoken). Its a feeling of warmth and feeling of happiness & joy. So dont loose a person, whose presence makes you happy and forget all your worries. Continue your friendship and enjoy every moment of it, instead of brooding over a wrong decision later
18 Feb 12
I think there is nothing wrong if you still continue your friendship with him as long you as you can teach your self how to forget your love on him. Do you tell to him your feeling for him?..Why don't you try to tell him that you like him.. I think there is nothing wrong about it. My friends always doing that when they really like someone.