can you fall in love with your bestfriend?

@mae1216 (658)
Philippines
February 8, 2007 3:50am CST
do you ever come to the point that you feel you love your bestfriend. did you fight for that love?
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11 responses
• India
8 Feb 07
i think i luv him....but i wont fight for it....
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
why not
@mannari (110)
• India
10 Feb 07
actually speaking i fell in love with my best friend and after that we broke up....
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Yes, specially when the two of you are getting along so well. I can fight my love, coz I'm a fighter but sometimes i also give up specially when I'm d only person who is fighting for our love.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
bestfriends should fall in love because that is the basis of a true relatinship, best of friends!
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
my guy bestfriend was the one who fell for me. i did not entertain the thought that we will be boyfriends or girlfriends because i find it too awkward. i just told him that we remained friends.
@mannari (110)
• India
10 Feb 07
yup we can and by the way my firs love was my best friend and after that we broke up and now just on hi bye terms
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
8 Feb 07
there is 2 kinds of love. one for best freins and one for the love of your life. The love for a best freind is you want to be close to them most of the time. True love the same but it goes farther you want to be with them every min. and know what they are thinking with true love you can talk or not talk ya know what the other one is thinking and it is just good to enjoy their company. Hope this helps for it is hard to define
• Australia
8 Feb 07
Most certainly you can fall in love with your best friend. I do not believe in love at first sight. I believe in attraction, even strong attraction or magnetism at first sight, but love needs time to develop. Love develops from a deep friendship and mutual RESPECT. Where there is no or little respect, true love cannot develop. When two people take time to allow their personalities, their likes and dislikes, their philosophies and ideals to merge and co-exist, and to respect and honour each other, love has a chance to develop. When that happens, you might be ready to make a lifetime commitment to each other. It is possible to have many best friends and not have love develop, but being "best friends" first is, in my opinion, essential. After all, you are planning to be best friends for a lifetime!
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
of course..currently my is my best friend before but we fell for each other..i think ok..at least i know everything about him..so easy to adapt..currently we have a good relationship right now..i think its a better way having a relationship..know the person first..
@khitkhat (373)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
it happened to me, but it didn't fight for it though. hahaha. it's just not meant to be. i often get in this situation wherein he talks about the girl that he likes... and i can't do anything but smile. hahaha. if only i could shed a tear right in front of him though.
@erl212 (303)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
mybe once, but i did not fight for it, she alread has a special someone and that special some one happens to be my friend, its not im afraid but i dont want to jeopardized our friendship because of that.