What do you do when you cant get along?

United States
February 8, 2007 6:45am CST
My husband and I have been together for the last 8 years, every since I turned 18. We have 4 children, one of which I had before we got together. We used to always fight all the time. Now we dont fight like we used to, thank god, but we work really hard at keeping it together. I guess my wuestion is, when you really love each other and want to stay together, why does it always seem like you are fighting a loosing battle? It always seems up hill. How do you know when to call it quits and when there is still a chance? I just think marriage should not be a constant battle.
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
9 Feb 07
No human relationship should be aconstant battle. I think that you should sit down together and talk about what makes you fight so much. Some of the reasons are probably not that important, so you should both make an effort and give the other a larger margin....and about important reasons why you fight....sit and talk and talk as long as necessary, or get some professional counseling if you feel you need to. That is what i would do.
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