Married Women

I'd be really hurt, but I'd also be honored that he'd confide in me about that. Married people get crushes all the time, and it's natural to have feelings like that. Maybe by telling you that he's been considering it, he's grasping for help, needing your attention or not knowing how to liven up yours and his relationship.

My husband and I have an understanding that we would have enough respect for one another to let eachother know if we are unhappy or unsatisfied in our marriage....We both feel that cheating is NOT an option. If we wanted a relationship with someone else (physical or emotional), we would be true to our vow of love and get out of the marriage first. Plus, he knows I will go straight psycho if I found out! Trust me, it wouldn't be worth it for him to take the chance ; )

If he wanted, but he did not it can be good news :/ but I do not like to hear these news. He wants to cheat on me only if our relationship is not good. So the problem for me would be that the relationship went to wrong. He must love me so much that he do not even think of cheating. So, I would ask myself first, what should I do to make our relationship better. Am I not good enough? But if I know, that I am good, and kind etc. I would ask him: WHY? If he has problem with me, then I would correct my defaults. But if he only likes a woman, that is else than me, I would ask him to leave me alone. I do not need a man who wants another woman. I do not want to share my man with another woman. So if he is not sure, that he loves me especially, I do not need his love. If ever a man say to you that you are not the only, then do say to him, that you do not need this kind of love. I suggest you never let men play with your feelings. If a man know that he could loose you, he will do his best not to loose you. And if not- it doesn't worth to care with him.

why one will tell, they want to cheat before cheating. If he is telling that he want to cheat. tell him ok, fine but not now. Hahaha

I will get very angry with him.. Will let him to leave him or leave her...

Lets just say I would let me hands do the talking. I would smack the s**t out of him. Not for wanting to cheat, but for being so stuid to tell me. LOL :)

Goodbye and don't come back.

I would leave the marriage. And I would probably slap him really hard too.

I don't think he will say this to me right on my face. . But "what if?" .... There's just one thing i'll do. SMASH HIS FACE! He'll be a battered husband i tell you. ^_^

I don't think he will tell you if he want to cheat you, Better you carefull.

WOW that is deep...i would leave him since he want to cheat on me and make him regret it

kick him out of the house.. and ask the lawyer to visit him the next day

Let's say this was my wife, saying that. I don't know. I would cheat first..? Ohohoho. She comes home all like : " I slept with another dude ". And I would be like : " Hahaha, I slept with another woman last week..!! Sucker..!!".

Talk with him about why he was feeling this way. We'd also go to marriage counseling. Cheating is 100% unacceptable in our marriage. I'd be glad that he came to me with the problem/his feelings before he acted on them, but I would not just ignore them. We would need to talk about what got him to that point, why I didn't know and what we could do to fix it. I think in the moment I would be horribly hurt and furious but down the line I would be grateful that he came to me first. It is much easier to fix a problem like this as soon as it comes up rather than waiting until after cheating has already happened.