what rights do i have as a father, even though i was not married

at the moment you have no rights but if you can get a lawyer you can get pearental rights this needs to go though court to get it but once you get it you have same rights as the mother

Hello, Certainly you have rights as the birth father and of course the vary from one location to another. Below is a link to a free leagal webpage that provides information based on your zip code. Maybe some good information is available. I appreciate hearing back if the help was useful. http://family.findlaw.com/child-custody/

Depending on how involved you have been in her life you can get visitation, even joint custody. Are you paying child support?