does it matter to wed a financially capable person?

Money is one of the main causes of arguing, fights and endings of relatiohships! It is not a good idea to go into a relationship with a person who is irresponsible, this will lead to resentments. Part of being an adult is earning and managing money. Yes, a finacially capable person is a better bet.

It doesn't matter really in that I wouldn't turn someone down to date for not having money. But I also would prefer to wait to marry someone if they were not able to support me finacially and they may have to. Only because I wouldn't want to put somebody in that position.