Ewww...!

Look - Marriage is a gift form God, it should be treasured for life
Philippines
February 9, 2007 1:26am CST
I wonder why some people get married jsut because they have made a responsibility that should be faced with the person, i mean by getting a woman pregnant, does necessarily mean that they should get married to save someone's honor? This is typically common among asian countries...! But sad to say, I dont agree with this kind of marriages, it is better to get married wholeheartedly, agreed by both parties with love and dedication for life...!
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• Canada
11 Feb 07
if someone got a girl pregnant, then hopefully he loved her before doing that and then i think that they should get married. but if he didn't love her then he shouldn't have gone to bed with her.
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Yes I agree with you that having a girl pregnant doesnt mean marrying her to the person who impregnated her. Having been pregnant is already a problem why add another one. This is reallt typical for families who is very much concerned about what other people will say about them. So instead of accepting the truth that their daughter is impregnated they result to marriage. I dont think that it is right to marry someone only because she is pregnant. Really, in most cases it wont work out for the two. Getting married is a total commitment to God and as well both parties should be ready not only financially, physically but also emotionally and psychologically.
@chaselee (240)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
Its either they're too afraid of their parents or they "think" that they can marry a person for the sake of the child. For whatever path they choose we can only help them by praying for their happiness in the future.