Does love hurt???

@Jleivang (374)
India
February 9, 2007 3:11am CST
Love sounds perfect but I think It has more imperfections in it. It feels good to know that you are being loved. But, this feeling isn't lasting. Inspite of being in a relationship, loneliness still exists, and i wonder why?
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@PomFect (204)
• Israel
9 Feb 07
Love hurt only if someone breakup with someone else becouse ur heart is just cut to half pieaces :P love can also be hurt when u love someone and ur not her/him boy/girl friend, and u see her/him with someone else its cuting u down :\
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Ya that's true. Thanks for the response.
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• Latvia
9 Feb 07
I do and don't agree with you. Love hurts generally. Love is such a good feeling that it hurts to feel that way. You are talking about diferent "hurt" - that's when someone does things to you knowing the result, knowing that it will hurt you or hurt both of you.
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@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
Love really hurts because the pinnacles of Love are sacrifice, trust and compromise. Those traits are all selfless traits meaning that you give them w/o question to your loved ones and that's what makes it so painful because you invested that much on someone that wouldn't or couldn't offer you those same traits back. That leads to a break-up and eventually loneliness.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Wow! you sound experienced. Thanks for the response.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
9 Feb 07
the old adage says that if love hurts you are doing it wrong. Love doesnt hurt, it is the falling out of love that hurts, in my opinion it is the worst feeling that two people can give one another
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Thank you for the response.
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@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
Love really hurts. You cannot be happy with love if you're not hurt. Love doesn't really necessary that it will make you happy. We willl go though a certain challenges and difficulties to test how much could we sacrificed in the name of love. Loneliness, happiness, trouble, breaking up are all a part of love. Love hurts when it is true. Happiness always on the end.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Thanx for responding. you're absolutely correct.
@suman76 (648)
• India
9 Feb 07
Why are looking a hurt part in love you should see the love part also. The moments of love you have enjoyed with each other. When it breaks then people only look demarits of love and other false myths.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Thanks for responding....for me it hasn't ended yet.
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@opinder (420)
• India
9 Feb 07
inspite of being in love we have an individual self which might disagree on some points. at times there are things we do not tell our loved ones or can't tell due to some reasons. but probably our concious mind does not notice this and we feel lonely. don't be upset. it is absolutely fine to feel lonely or sad at times.
@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
very true. thank you
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
17 Feb 07
Love hurts in many ways. love hurts when the one you love hurts you. and love hurts when the one you love is hurting and you hurt with them. and then love hurts when you lose the one you love or loving someone and they dont love you back. love hurts in many ways.
@Jleivang (374)
• India
17 Feb 07
hmm...very true, wish love could be sweet all the time.
• India
9 Feb 07
love hurts ........ be aware of it..... its dagerous to our health.....
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Hahaha....yes, I'll be careful. Thanks for the response.
@thess11 (81)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
The only person that can hurt you most is the one who you love most. I heard that from somebody. So if you want to be in love, be prepared to be also hurt. They go together because the hurting part makes us become better persons and be better prepared for life so we can better love...:-)
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
10 Feb 07
Hmm...wish we could omit the hurting part:-) thanks for the response.
@n3v3rl0v3 (153)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Feb 07
Love is all time perfect in it's meanings. As far as the loneliness is concerned, you won't ever feel lonely if you are with the person you love. And if he/she isn't with you, yet you feel happy with those memories of love you've shared ever and by reminding his/her talks/style/laughs/acts etc etc. Love fulfills your world that's why it's all time perfect every way. But you will surely feel upset when your love is one-sided. Both sided love always leaves everlasting happiness/joyful memories and impact. Even in those times when you love isn't with you. :-)
@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Thanks for responding.
@Commerce (646)
• India
12 Feb 07
Love hurts...it has smashed my being ... all taken away by love. surely love hurts.. it left an empty hole in my heart LOL. well, Love hurts!
@Commerce (646)
• India
17 Feb 07
Lol what is that? Can't get your point:P
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
17 Feb 07
Ka hmangaih che means I love you (in Mizo), say that to her:-) good luck!!!
@Jleivang (374)
• India
13 Feb 07
Thanks for sharing. Hope the void in your heart gets filled up soon. Good luck dude!!!You just have to say ka hmangaih che...lol
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9 Feb 07
If your feeling lonely in a relationship it shows that someones heart isn't in it. Love can hurt after the relationship is over but try not to let it get to you too much. Time really is a great healer. Did you just happen to bring this up or does it mean something to you??
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9 Feb 07
If you ever wanna talk then message me.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
10 Feb 07
Sure, thanks.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
I completely agree with you, in spite of being in a relationship, I feel lonely and m unhappy. This means something to me...thus, I brought up the topic. I really like your response. Thanks.
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• Latvia
9 Feb 07
It will never be perfect. We are not perfect. But love hurts - yes it does. But hey, that means we have feelings, we feel love. And doesn't those great moments erase bad ones? As talking about me - I don't know how to love. I am in love, but I have no clue what to do with it. I start pushing away him, because I don't know what to do with my love.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
That was an honest reply. About me, I feel I give myself to love too much, so maybe it has hurt me in return.
• Latvia
9 Feb 07
Yes I know what you mean. I had that feel last night. But then again - we never know what he realy thinks if we don't ask. I felt like crap last night, I had the same sentence in my head you wrote. But I got his sms - "Send me your kisses, I miss them!". That little sms chage my mood.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Aw....so sweet of him to send that sms. I understand what difference one true and honest sentence can make to our life. Good luck to both of you.
• United States
12 Feb 07
Sometimes love does hurt but the hurt is definatley worth it as long as the good times are really good. and as long as you arent hurting more than you are feeling good. no good relationship should make you hurt constantly and no one who really loves you would constantly make you hurt. Sometimes there are just things that cant be avoided that hurt but you can usually work through them if you really love someone
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
13 Feb 07
Thanks for sharing.
• India
9 Feb 07
love hurts sometime..when u have fight with ur loved one..u start feeling loneliness..u had a bad feeling...it hurts u that u mad her sad...it gots worst when ur relationship gots ended...but still love is the most important part of our life
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
9 Feb 07
Hmm...absolutely right. Thanks for the response.
@ajinomoto23 (1057)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
Love seek to be united with the one you love. When you cannot have that union, you will be hurt. You better ask, in what way can you be hurt by your love one. Betrayal, unfaithful, violence, abuse. Some people simply ignore the hurt because love heals all the hurt and endures all the pain. Love overlook all the error and the weakness of a person.