Who would you prefer when sad???

I would rather have a person listen to my problems and then offer advice. Not tell me what to do but ways to improve or make me happier.

Yes me 2oo perfer someone listen first ans give me tips but if im wrong then must suggest me .....

whenevr i am sad i mostly alone but if i need sumone i will need my friend or my sis,coz i dont share my sorrows with anyone..

That's only my "ABHI"..my bf .... he loves me and care for me .......i just pour down all my worries on him.... And make me happy ....... and try to sort out things.......

i cant stand ppl who just start spewing out a list of what to do before they even understand what the problem is! and the one thing that would make the biggest difference when they offer such "advice" should be to change the opening sentence!! instead of "this is what you do, or do this" they need to say, "have you tried this?" or even "do you think this would help?" its frequently how they word the advice that makes a difference.

Yea I'd rather a person who is prepared to listen to my problems and then ask how I feel after just to make sure that I'm feeling better, I would then let them talk to me and give me their ideas on my problems when I'm feeling sad!!!