he loves me he loves me not

Latvia
February 9, 2007 4:27am CST
I love my boyfreind very much. He says he loves me too, he realy takes care of me. But why do I have feeling he is not willing to stay with me? What do you think - how do you know if it is love from his point of view?
3 responses
@cuddleme01 (2725)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
i suggest you observe your boyfriends actions. actions speak louder than words. By his actions you will know if he realy loves you or not. You see his true feelings and you will feel it.
• Latvia
9 Feb 07
thank you
@talisman (1297)
• United States
9 Feb 07
If someone loves you, you'd know it. If that's how you feel, why aren't you talking to him about it? If you want a successful relationship, you need communication.
• Latvia
9 Feb 07
I think sometimes I am the one who doesn't want to talk, because I am afraid of arguments (I hate to argue). But you are right - COMUNICATION - like first comment says similar:)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
Well traditionally men falls inlove in this order attraction,physically involved,and then emotionally involved. Most men at not showy of their feelings.Most of them tends to shy off,hide,and even say things in a different approach eventhough you are with them for a long time. The best thing to do is ask him. Sometimes they just need a little pushing to open up. Mentally list down the things you want to ask,set up the mood,and most importantly don't let it become an argument. Just a friendly talk between the two of you. That always work with my husband.
• Latvia
9 Feb 07
Good idea - to ask. But then I am thinking - if he doesn't want to talk about it and he would just say - yeah yeah I love you!!!! :) I guess I think too much:)