Can a boy and girl be best friends!!

India
February 9, 2007 10:37am CST
ITS always said a boy and girl cant be best friends love comes between them wat you all say.I think thats true.Let me know your views
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@kparab (301)
• United States
9 Feb 07
yes boy and girl can bebest friends provided they are very comfortable with that and understand where the limit of friendship will end if tried to pull
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• United States
9 Feb 07
That is not true. A man and a woman can be best friends. Love can come between them sometimes or love can develop and they end up being married. My wife and I were best friends for 7 years before we ever actually dated. When we did it was love and we have been married for 15 years. We are still best friends.
@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
9 Feb 07
yeap i think thats exactly how it happens in real life first their friends best friends and after that they fall in love
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Yes, definitely. In my case, I always maintained a very close relationship with my male bestfriend. We started being friends way back when were in College. Some people even thought that were into a BF-GF relationship. The funny thing was, we never fell into this kind of relationship. My husband knew about my bestfriend and he trusted him that we are merely friends. The best part about having a male friend is that you were able to pour out your problem and hear his advise based on a man's point of view.
@bhetelux (189)
• Italy
9 Feb 07
i can tell u that surely that girl and boy can be best friends! some years ago i fell in love with a girl and then we leave us and we became really best friends! today we are still friends and i don't think to her as a girlfriend yet!
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• India
9 Feb 07
see dear you have turned your relationship to a new horizon.Initially you got attracted to her and that means you started liking her
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• India
10 Feb 07
I thinks that nothing should stop a guy and gal from being good friends. All it requires is to like each other's personalities and understand each other to a certain level. And what if they do get attracted towards each other? It's better to fall for someone you know and care for than to fall for someone out of phermones or lust. (no offence to anyone here.... just making a point).
@miryam (6505)
• Italy
9 Feb 07
I thincl that are possible, I'm have one best friend male, I do my live he his..but we are a best rappor it's a better of my sister. He know all on my live.......
• India
9 Feb 07
Bur, I think its not necessary. Its the view of the people that see the friendship of boy and girl as love. I saw many friendships of boys and girls that comes under a true friendship. OK, I accept that boys love girls or vice versa, but they may have best bond of friendship rather than Love. For my opinion, girls may be as good friends as lovers. Have a nice day. Bye.
• United States
9 Feb 07
Of corse guys and girls can be bestfriends. I have alot of guys that I am just friends with and would never even think of dating them because I just dont see them that way. I guess it all depends on the guy and the girl. I love all my friends guys and girls but I dont see my guy friends being anything but close friends. just thinking about them that way makes me laugh. my friends are goofie, silly and just plain crazy. and not the type i would date but so much fun to be around. hope that helps ya
9 Feb 07
Yes, a boy and girl can be best friends. I have several close boy friends, and most of them I have never had any feelings for other than friendship. In fact I find it easier to talk to my boy friends than my girl friends for most things.