What is it about sports and guys?

@sharone74 (4837)
United States
February 9, 2007 10:50am CST
They all watch sports and they get all wrapped up in the teams, and the stats. Men put team decals on their cars and they buy Jerseys with their favorite players name and number on them. They flock to sports bars and sporting events like bees to flowers. On the other hand just about every gay guy I know is as mystified as I am about the male obsession for sports. So is it just a "man" thing or is it a "learned behavior."?
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@nw1911guy (1131)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I think it's a learned behavior. I personally don't pay much attention to sports. Not much point. I like to watch an occasional car race like Formula One, World Rally Championship, or SCCA Trans AM series. But mostly because it tends to be sort of obscure here in the states and I am kind of a car nut. But when you get into baseball and football, I really couldn't care less.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
11 Feb 07
So for you it is just racing then? And how much of that do you watch?
• United States
9 Feb 07
I believe that the main reason is that most of us participated in sports when we were younger. We can live vicariously through our teams and by watching games on TV or in person. Sports are a great outlet. You ought to try and participate in some of what your man is interested in. Maybe you can have a trade off. He can try something you like to do if you try the sports deal. You might actually find out that sports are quite enjoyable.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
10 Feb 07
Yes but he never trades off!
• Pakistan
10 Feb 07
hmmn i think man dont wana talk abt feelings relationships so watelse is left then obviously sports n woman so i think its a learned behaviour
• United States
16 Feb 07
And we flock to the purses, nighties, and shoes or to the crafts section for "pretties" to make. We love it when they give us cuddly teddy bears and cards with stickers we can scrapbook with. Is this a "woman" thing or is it a "learned behavior"? ~Donna
@brihanna (381)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I think that for men who have a hard time relating to other men (or women) this is a good outlet. They do not want to talk about family, or feelings, or relationships-so what can they talk about when together? Women and sports. I believe that it is a learned behavior. A boy watches his father, who watched his father. In school, that is what boys talk about-so each boy needs to "keep up" with what is going on. I think it is foolish. My husband knows more about what is going on with his sports teams than with his own family. It is sad that so many men miss out on so much of life because of sports.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I totally agree, I think that it is a form of avoidance behaviour. But they also say that men are in hierachical relationships with other men where they are either one up or one down so they don't want anybody to know more about either of the two topics that interest them.
@verbose (87)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I think its a response to the way we evolved. Man is a tribal sort where a woman needs are met by family. Men were al;ways the warriors and I think sports are a reflection of that
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I don't think that sports reflects that I think that it is an outlet for the Peter Pan syndrome.