Calling all kinksters

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So who's kinky? Talk to me, people. Are you a sub, a dom/me, a switch? Top or bottom? What kind of play activities are you into? How long have you been on the scene? Involved with a kinky partner? Are you in or out of the toy closet? Online? Locally? Do you attend local functions? What's your favorite toy or activity? Well, equivalent exchange and all, so... I'm a sub. Not a doormat though. I'm collared, by both a master and a mistress (who are best friends but uninvolved; I'm the pivot in this polyamorous relationship), and they're the ones who get my submission. Other people get my respect as they earn it, just like anyone else, regardless of what label they give themselves. I like being tied up, and spanked, and flogged, not necessarily in that order and either in combination or not. I'm not too keen on electrical play and definitely not keen on piercings. I have my ears done, that's quite enough for me, thank you. I don't care to have something sharp jabbed through my bits. o_O; Especially not the girls. They can be clamped, but they never did anything to anybody to deserve big ol' needles in 'em. I'm out online, but I usually don't bring it up except like in these circumstances, in lifestyle-relevant forums and whatnot. No reason to be all IN YO' FACE about it, after all. I'm... neither out nor in on a local offline level. I don't take extreme measures to avoid anyone ever finding out, but I don't advertise it either. I do attend munches -- haven't had a chance to attend any partys hosted by my local BDSM group yet, but provided my mistress's work schedule doesn't change on us, that'll change this month. I do like the local group. They're very warm, very accepting and friendly people and it's fun meeting up with them once a month at a nearby coffeehouse. I wear a black rubber and silver dragonhead choker that works for a collar. It's got a lot of kinky trappings to it (black rubber, O-ring held between the two dragonhead mouths, etc) but it's not an obvious collar either, so I can get away with wearing it and not get asked questions that I might not be inclined to answer at the time. What kind of collars do you use?