Is it really a big deal if your in-laws doesnt like you?
By killersmile
@killersmile (75)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 2:24am CST
for me it is. good thing mny inlaws love me so much.. my mother doesnt like my brother's wife and i feel sorry for her. she is good to me and i like her too. but the thing is she doesnt have a life. she's too young and my mother is fed up taking care of them.
1 response
@talisman (1300)
• United States
10 Feb 07
It can be a big deal, depending on how far their dislike of you goes. I know people who's in-laws hate them so much, they call Child Protective Services on their kids, tell lies about them to their partners, etc. My in-laws hate me, so they refuse to talk to my husband or allow him contact his own sister (she's still just a kid, there's a big age difference). My mother-in-law's boyfriend will tell my husband things about me that aren't true and can't be repeated here and that I'll cause him to kill himself. Lovely, don't you think? So, yes, having your in-laws not like you can be a very big deal. However, if people would just tolerate eachother, it wouldn't be so bad.
