a problem

India
February 10, 2007 3:19am CST
my father married thrice, i am his second wifes daughter whom he divorced when i was a kid. the next wife who came along has a daughter, 8 years younger to me. i always considered his third wife as a mother and her daughter as my sister. we both bonded well until i got married. after my marriage my father has cut off from me and he doesnt let my step sister and me to meet or talk. we have talked in secret and we both came to the conclusion that he has some complex about his past. he thinks i meet my mother and plots against him.. the truth is i havent met her because i have no clue about who she is and where to find her.my step mother is no more concerned about me. i have always considered ours to be a nice family.. which probably was not. i do not know wht to say to my husband. he tried talking to my father, to ask him about his problem and why he does not let me and my sister meet. my fatehr told him directly that he should not think about things which are trivial. i am not sure what step to take as i want to be in touch with my sister how can he jus come up with some wrong notions and doesnt want to clear them and blame things on to me. i have no option- i cannot call them, talk to them.. i feel like an orphan.. can some one suggest, what should i do?
1 response
@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
10 Feb 07
This sounds like a family thing you should talk about, get your sister, dad, step-mum and arrange for a coffee, but do not let each other know, once they meet up, have some food, etc, then you guys need to clear the air and talk. If you do decide to do this, let us know how it goes, good luck!
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• India
10 Feb 07
thanks, xelissa, i have tried meeting them but it has been a failure.