Why is it so hard for you to receive love but you want to give it.?

@aslygirl (531)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 5:46am CST
My friend so inlove with a man that sometimes treats her ok and sometimes not, The guy worries about what everybody else thinks and my friend ready to give him the answer but he feels everybody has more credit than my friend whose been there for 6 years through his up and downs.Is it ok to hurt a good woman who does just wants to make him happy?
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@g_aileen09 (1354)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Love hurts. Love, when reciprocated just as we wanted to be, would mean incomparable bliss... but if not, the pain is unbearable. And love is blind. It does not see any wrong on the other person, as long as she is in love. Every wrong could still be right. Letting go is not the solution for them. It is holding on, hoping that someday, somehow, everything will turn out right... it will change like magic, and she will be lying on a bed full of rose petals with him...a fairy tale come true. But OPPOSITES ATTRACT... remember that. God made your friend close to him so that she may fill in the shortcomings this man has. Your friend might just be the stronger type...emotional yet strong --- the very qualities that the ideal woman has beside him, yet the man thinks he has yet to find somewhere else. Believing in everybody except her. That happens. Tell your friend not to worry. She should not give up. Love is her strongest weapon. The man will come to realize that...sooner or later. I just hope it wouldn't be too late.
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Good answer madam!Thanks!
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
It is very hard to recieve the love you want.Maybe your friends should talk to his boyfriend.Make it clear about their relationship.A good person deserve to treat nice.
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• India
11 Feb 07
No, I don't think, he has any such rights to do this. I mean when you have a person in your life who is alway with you in your ups and down and always supported you in your bad days, I don't think you should give more credit to other people compare to this one. I think your friend is being take as granted. She should not let this happen. She must have make his friend understand about what is he doing is not right. I beleive that person should never hurt such a nice lady. He has to be very much clear about what he wants. If he wants your friend to be in his life for more support and all, he must take initiative to value her feelings and all.
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Thanks! You have a good heart!:}
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• Philippines
27 Feb 07
Yes sometimes we dont receive any good treats and sometimes love that we are wanting.But love is good it will find way to feel you better and make you better.Tell to your friend that dont loose hope.Everything will be ok.
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Thanks for your reply.